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Wednesday, October 2, 2013

A Saturday in DC

A good way to spend the day in DC is to travel out of DC itself and to Mount Vernon, George and Martha Washington's home, in Virginia.

We hopped on the metro near our hotel and rode it to the end of the line. From there we took the 151 bus to Mount Vernon and spent the day exploring the grounds and the house.

I visited Mount Vernon in the 6th grade, but all I remember is the house. I'm not sure if more has been added in terms of the tourist information as you enter the property or if I paid no attention to it at the time.


Here we are at the museum connected to the ticket office

We spent the majority of the day walking around the property.

I don't know what it is about touring a grand estate, but something in a great home like this always produces a distinguished feeling.


I also don't know what it is about children and dirt, but the gravel path took any boredom out of waiting in line.

We were able to see the tombs of George and Martha as well, something I know I didn't see when I visited as a child.

After Mount Vernon, I made an impromptu decision to head to this place:



It's Jack's favorite place in DC.

I kept telling him it wasn't likely to happen on this trip. We were in DC for a day and a half, and because the Lincoln Memorial is a good walk from the metro station, I knew we would be pushing it with Mattie. But she fell asleep on the bus ride back from Mount Vernon and I thought, why not?

It's a great place to end any day in DC!

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Riding the Rails

It was an experience, that's for sure.

While I can't say we won't do it again, it's not something I'm ready to repeat anytime soon.

Last Thursday we took an overnight train trip to Washington DC. We also took the return trip home by train Sunday night.

I hadn't given train travel much thought before this trip. I've seen advertisements for trips through the Canadian Rockies and would love to someday do that, but it had never occurred to me that train travel would be an option from getting from one place to another.

Here are my thoughts about traveling the rails based on our first and only experience.

Pros:
1. Cost of Tickets - One of the pluses to traveling by train is that it cost less than a flight. This could be the result of me deciding last minute to take this trip, but it was less expensive than flying, and quite possibly driving, for us.
2. Mobility - Unlike a plane or a car, you aren't as confined on a train. There is a lot of seat space and ample leg room. You can walk throughout the train the entire time and can sit in the snack bar or at a table in the dining car.
3. Luggage - You can bring up to two bags per person, and there's plenty of overhead storage. You can also access your luggage easily throughout the ride.
4. No Long Security Lines - We began the trip leaving from a small station, and there was only one other person boarding. Even though the train was an hour behind schedule, it was not a hassle. We talked to the other passenger and the folks at the train depot, and when it was time to board we just walked on the train. I don't even think we had reached our seats when it began moving. On the way home we left from Union Station. It was a crowded place, but we still didn't have to go through any security lines. We had to wait briefly in a line to board the train, but as soon as everyone was on it took off.
5. Conversations - I don't know why, but the fellow passengers seem more friendly on a train. I've noticed that most people, myself included, don't like to strike up conversations on a plane. It seems the opposite for train travelers. I think that might be part of the allure. I actually think it made for a more pleasant trip! We talked to several retired couples that had been riding the rails for weeks. They would get off and stay at one destination a few days and then would get on another line to head somewhere else.

Cons:
1. Cost of Meals - While the ticket prices for coach seats were reasonable, the meals and snack prices were not. I think they know they can charge outrageous prices because there aren't other options. Of course you could eat before boarding the train or bring your own snacks.  My biggest complaint is that we were charged a gourmet-meal price for Denny's quality food.
2. Rude Employees - While those collecting tickets and the men wandering throughout the cars were friendly, the people serving the meals were not. When asking questions about dinner reservations or when actually ordering in the dining car, the employees acted as if we were a nuisance and were bothering them.  One of the employees got mad because I threw away a wet diaper in the trash can near the snack room. I could understand if it was a diaper full of poop, but she expected me to go to the back of the train to see if the restroom was unoccupied in order to throw it away.
3. Noise - There's mainly two kinds of sounds you can expect on a train. The first comes from the train itself. I was thinking that there would be a steady, relaxing lull. While there are moments when this happens, the train itself produces a lot of rackety sounds. At about 2 am on the ride to DC the metal bar above my head was making a loud, clanking sound. It's interesting that I didn't notice the noise anytime before then or the next morning at all, but at 2 am, it sounded like the most annoying sound I'd ever heard. You should also expect noise from the other passengers while on board a train. People are boarding at all hours of the night, and they aren't quiet about it. On the ride back from DC there was a drunk guy flirting with two girls sitting in front of us. There was also a man next to us with some serious sleep apnea issues. Not only could we hear him snoring, but he was audibly choking and gasping for breath throughout the night. Needless to say, I did not sleep well. Jack did ok. He had a harder time getting to sleep on the train ride to DC, but slept a solid 11 hours on the ride back. Mattie couldn't get comfortable on both rides, which meant I had a hard time getting comfortable as well. She woke up a few times, and I had to let her play with the apps on my phone to keep her from crying. Riding in coach with a two year old is not the brightest idea I've ever had.

The final thing about the train ride, the time, was not a plus or con in my opinion. It was a 16-hour ride that didn't feel like it took that long. Both air and car travel are quicker, but they don't feel that way. I think because most of the time was spent during the overnight hours sleeping, or trying to sleep in my case, that the time passed quickly.

If we were to travel by train again, it would be worth the extra cost to get a sleeper car. Even though they are tiny, they are private. The noise from the train itself and the rough ride would still be somewhat of an issue, but I would guess those in the sleeper section were more well-rested than those of us in coach.

Tuesday, September 24, 2013

Jumping on Shapes

It's most often the simple things that go a long way with children.


















I can't believe the endless fun my two have had the past few days since we did this.

I drew the shapes. Jack colored and cut them out. Mattie helped me tape them to the floor.

Every time we've been in meltdown mode, to the shapes we go to jump from one to the other.

And incase you are wondering about the one between the crescent and the rectangle, it's a mushroom. Jack put it together out of the scrap paper and wanted me to include it!

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Playlist

Every mom knows there is lots of monotony in day-to-day life with little ones. One of those tasks that must be performed with an almost annoying regularity is cleaning up the daily mess.

A way to make it more interesting is to put on some music and dance and sing your way through the work.

Most afternoons before Matt gets home we try to at least have the den picked up. Here's our hodgepodge of cds we rotate listening to throughout any given week:











Wednesday, September 18, 2013

When All Doesn't Go As Planned

The last few days have seen many things NOT go the way I was expecting.

Nothing catastrophic.

Just down right annoying.

I know it's not good to "sweat the small stuff," but when it feels like a thousand "small stuffs" adding up in a weeks time, it's hard not to break into profuse perspiration.

Like when you take your children to The Doc Mobile, and it's NO-THING like what you thought it would be. You stand there confused for a few minutes because the multiple lines stretching around Centennial Olympic Park have you baffled. Not to mention there are no characters walking around to greet you. Maybe you should have read the website better or realized that a free event would not entail what you were envisioning.

Or maybe you went to do a community service project with your children only to realize that you were more in the way than actually helping.

Or a brother aggravates his sister for the umpteenth time that day, and she is screaming bloody murder while you are trying to listen to Grandma talking to you on the phone.

Or it's the laundry you forgot to fold last night and now the babysitter will arrive any minute. You move it from the couch to your bed in hopes she won't see it there. Your real hope is that she won't think you are a disorganized mess ALL THE TIME. For she's in her early 20s and has no way to comprehend how you don't have time to wipe the sink or fold the clothes or get your chidren dressed that morning.

And when you leave the house you are wound so tight that your shoulders are in knots and your mind is working at warp speed.

So you take some time to write it all out in a blog post hoping to relieve the tension. And it helps, but it's not the answer. You don't know what the answer is other than to keep going. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and taking it as it comes, both good and bad, annoying and joyful.

And you know many things in this day, this week, this month, this year, this life won't go as expected. You just wish you could get used to that.

Monday, September 16, 2013

To Have and Have Not

Hemingway is not one for happy endings. That's part of what makes his prose so hauntingly beautiful.

Halfway through "To Have and Have Not" I was thinking it might be my favorite Hemingway novel. By the time I finished I wasn't sure what I felt.

Then I remembered the words Mark Twain penned about his classic tale "Huckleberry Finn":
"Persons attempting to find a motive in this narrative will be prosecuted; persons attempting to find a moral in it will be banished; persons attempting to find a plot in it will be shot.
                                                  BY ORDER OF THE AUTHOR
                                                   Per G.G., Chief of Ordnance."
Sometimes you just have to enjoy the story, and in order to do that it means you stop trying to find the lesson in it. When a book includues murder, robbery, adultery and suicide as its main arteries, it's a bit hard not to attempt to find some sort of redeeming lesson to take from it.

As hard as I try I can't seem to find it.

A good story is a good story.

No matter how depressing.

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

CSA Wednesday Surprise

The Community Supported Agriculture (CSA) program we participate in doesn't officially kick off for fall until October, but last night I received an e-mail saying there were eggs and pears available at the farm. Because we were part of past CSAs and were signing up again, we were invited to come for a unscheduled pick up today!